Husband is always angry at me

[Winterwondering22]

I never seem to be able to do anything right.
he makes me feel bad about everything.
talks to me like a child and I don’t feel respected or appreciated or equal.
mom tired of it.
i want to leave but I feel so trapped as we have 3 kids. I want him to be nicer but he just can’t seem to be the person he was the person I married.
20 years on he’s like a monster. Help please.

What kind of things does he say to you?

What does he do? How old are kids? If it's been that long he is unlikely to change. You need to find a way to walk away. It's not good for your kids to see.

I don’t think he’ll change and it sounds like his treatment of you is getting worse. Can you speak to someone IRL, or contact Womens Aid https://www.womensaid.org.uk/about-us/contact/
or https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/
Look at your family finances, do you own or rent, savings, his pension, proof of his earnings and gather together as many copies as you can. Once you start planning your exit route you’ll feel you have more control. No one should feel they have to stay in a relationship where they’re unhappy, badly treated.