Me and my sister don't get on. She is very conflicted. She was engaged in abusive communications to me for a umber of years and I would consider it to be harassment.
I ignore her for a lot of the time. I took steps to minimise it but she persisted. She is escalating all over again. Her anger was never normal. I think it's controlling behaviour. I think she wants to control me even from afar and being apart. She wants me to give her acknowledgements while she insults me. She doesn't want to repair the relationship. She wants me to give into her.
I am in a place where I think I can go down the civil legal route and seek a protection order from the court.
Did anyone here ever have to do the same. Can I get some help please.
I am worried and anxious. Her abusive communications started 8 years ago. I don't want to dig back 8 years and inti old phones to view all those old messages. It's something that makes me sick. She has so much blame for me and so much of it is needless and pointless. I am worried that maybe a judge might interrogate me. I do have a lot of abusive communications and I would be able to print out a lot of it since last winter.
Has anyone been in this position before, maybe with an ex and disgruntled ex.