Why can’t I end it???

[Lizzybizz123]

I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years I’m in my mid 40s it’s been on/off and toxic at times, however there was a time I was madly in love with him and thought I was having the time of my life…… the relationship seemed incapable of moving on to the next level he made sure he controlled it…. Just lately I’ve been seeing him in a different way I’m not sure there’s any love there anymore I think I’m seeing him for what he is, but that really scares me I don’t know why…. I just don’t know what to do? Is this normal…? I feel so conflicted and confused 🫤

Reality bites! Isn’t that how the saying goes? Do you want to settle for what you’ve now got? Can you see yourself growing old with him, wiping his dribble? Would he wipe yours? If not then you don’t need stay. Just tell him it’s not working for you anymore and bale out.

Wave goodbye and say hello to the next chapter of your life. Don't waste another millisecond on this twat of a man.

Can you have some space from him to see how much easier your life will be without him? Maybe a temporary break to give you the strength to leave?