Ignored by husband

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My husband of nearly 12 years, together over 20, ignores me every evening. We've 3 kids who do plenty of extra curricular activities so can be going in different directions most evenings but when home he'll go to one room and I go to another. He'll spend one evening a week with me. When I ask him he'll say oh I'm just coming into you now but never does.

I have a pressurised job and am actually double jobbing as I got a promotion but my position has not been filled yet, do the majority around the house and with the kids and all cooking except for the sunday dinner.

It's getting very lonely and I'm annoyed by it. He's not doing anything other than watching his phone or tv or sometimes playing the xbox.

So announce "you are boring, entitled and rude as far as I can see nowadays and just to let you know so it doesn't come as a surprise until you sort it out I will not be cooking for you, washing your clothes or anything else as you are not a man-god"

He's checked out of the relationship. You're legally married but not in a relationship. I wouldn't want the hassle of doing his laundry. I'd rather go separately ways. Being married is not the be and end all especially when you have a job, adult children, friends I'm sure. Don't do this to yourself.

Yet another man treating his partner as “mum”. He’s not a fucking child - stop doing stuff for him.