My children have recently had a parents evening. We have always ended parents evening with a meal out somewhere (sometimes McDonalds, sometimes the local pub depending on what the children want) as a 'well done'. I am divorced from their father but we still do it together as it is important to me that they see we can co-parent and spend time together once in a blue moon when it is about them.
I have been with my current partner around a year. Everything is going well (or so I thought). He has met the children, they really like him and he's great with them. After their parents evening last Autumn the boys wanted to go to McDonalds so it was me, them and their dad. I have no recollection of oh mentioning anything at all about it at the time but he would have known. This evening they asked to go the local pub so we did. I told my oh that we had been (I think I mentioned to him last week that this was likely to happen) and he is now not talking to me. I'm assuming it's because of the meal but that is just a guess as he won't tell me what I've done to upset him.
Am I wrong going out for a casual meal with my children and their dad? It was about them having a great parents evening. It was an early dinner where we were home by 6 o'clock. We drove separately. No alcohol was drunk. My thinking is that them seeing us being able to do things like this for them can only be a positive. I would understand my oh not being happy if it was just me and my ex husband going for a meal somewhere. That is something that would never happen though. Am I in the wrong for doing this? Thank you.