I am not sure if I am being paranoid or not… Something in my gut is telling me that things are not right. We have been having a rocky six months or so but are trying to work through things. We’ve been together 30 years. DH has changed the passcode on his phone, and last week I came up behind him and he was messaging someone. He slammed the cover closed on his phone and then was extra nice to me. He said he was looking up something on the net, but it was definitely a messaging app. Why lie if he was messaging a friend or his Mum/Dad or work? There have been a couple of times where he hasn’t realised I was around. He’s been looking at his phone with a look that I would describe as pure happiness or even love. Not the sort of look you have when Facebook throws something funny up at you, it was more than that. I’m worried I am seeing things where there is nothing to see because we have been having some problems. If I confront him without any evidence I will blow a hole in what remains of our marriage. If I really want to know I am going to either ask him, or try to find some evidence. Were there any hints that his attention might be elsewhere? He doesn’t go out often, so if it is an affair he’s either conducting it during the day when I am at work, he WFH, or it’s an emotional online affair… Sorry, I have rambled a bit…