I think I've had enough of men and relationships now.
From outright criticisms of my appearance and suggestions that I'd look better if I lost a few pounds from previous men to faint praise now in my current relationship.
I'm in my late 40s. I've had two children. I wear size 12 clothes. I've got a slight mum tum but it doesnt bother me personally. My boobs probably aren't where they were 20 years ago but they're also bigger. I'd probably look better if I dropped a stone but I'd still only be a slightly slimmer version of the body shape I am as i tend to lose and gain weight proportionally. I wouldn't look any different really and I've had these comments since I was younger and a size 8.
I'm always baffled when I read threads where women have men who've loved and fancied them at a size 8 or 18.
I've just had enough of it now and I'm preparing to spend the rest of my life single and celibate.