Ok so I've been with partner for 9 years. When he drinks he drinks excessively and it's been a problem basically our whole relationship and has caused us to separate before. At the moment he'd take a few beers maybe once a week twice at the most because he realised the problem. Himself & friends booked tickets for a night out, that was fine. I was ok with that. He asked me was I annoyed at him going out and I wasn't in the slightest. Although he knows how I feel about him drinking excessively while out & he's quite aware of the problems it's caused before between us. He was walking around the house boasting about hitting the drink hard tomorrow night & kept saying it around me, which I won't lie it annoyed me a tad. It felt like a slap up the face. And I turned round and said to him if he's going out drinking I'm just going to bed before he comes home for I hate watching him like that, the conversation suddenly turned into an argument & he said that the problem is I don't want him going out, that I'm trying to ruin it & ive just killed his mood for going and he's not going to go now & it's all my fault. I tried explaining that I don't care if he goes, I just don't want to be sitting round him when he's come home drunk. I didn't tell him to not get drunk I just said I don't want to be around it when he gets home. I tried explaining how I'd feel like a complete hypocrite sitting with him like that as I've fought long & hard for 9 years with his alcohol problems and I've been through ALOT with it and I just don't like seeing him in that state. He said he just wants "one last blowout" and that I'm just trying to ruin it all with my stupid remarks and that he's not even going now because I've ruined it. Am I in the wrong?