Other than the long history that most of you know these are the new negative developments@
We both got a tax credit settlement a few weeks ago and before he could tell me what to use mine for I invested it in setting myself up to start work again - there are some very expensive institutions that I need to be registered with in order to work and P has never supported me with such 'high-level' needs, financially or emotionally. I told him it was an investmenmt in the family and if he couldn;t see why I did with without his 'permission' then he needed to think about it some more.
He accused me of "robbing" from my own family (and other predicble emotional blackmail) and we agreed that she should go bakc into the spare room.
He's back to acting like a complete controlling arsehole again telling me we can have no moments of spontenaity, any fun, any interaction above curtesy infrojt of DS.
I asked him to leave if he was going to enforce us living under such an oppresive shadow and said - as I meant it - that he sucks the joy out of every one of lives small pleasures.
He informed me (which is the only interaction I get when it comes to hiS higher- end needs, that he was staying out his business partner to finish a project. I comes ack today with a t 4 obvioulsy stilltottaly abuzz with ecstasy.
he has had problems in the past with drug addictions.
I cannopt describe how angry I am, and I know I have to surb it but he's infomwed he that he won't be moving out until the end of March - aniother of hos patented power games.
How do I tiolerate this and keep my sanity??