This isn't a humble brag. Married 25 years, together about 30, 3 kids, two are adults one tween with SEN. My DH, I think, loves me more than I love him. I don't feel capable of the deep love he has for me. He told me at the weekend while we were out together and after he'd had a couple of drinks that he remembered when we'd met briefly months, maybe a year, before I remember meeting and talking to him. He described what I was wearing, my hairstyle (I change it quite bit), and that "I loved you from the first moment I saw you." While that statement initially gave me goosebumps and I thought it was lovely, the more I think about it, the more I feel such a responsibility for his heart. We've been through some tough times and he's always been there, I developed a life-long medical condition, our child has SEN because of it. I even wanted to end our marriage at one point but he fought for it (I'm glad he did, it was depression that I've struggled with for a long time.) He doesn't smother me, he's not possessive in his actions or his behaviour with me. I just feel the weight of his love and it feels a bit oppressive sometimes. I'm not the easiest person to love, I can be distant, and maybe that's another reason it feels oppressive, because he loves me despite all that and I don't deserve it. Am I being unreasonable or do you understand how I feel?