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Thinking about a man at work

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SorryButThatsAFact · 21/03/2023 14:54

I'm 51 and work in a job that's long hours and fairly low pay.

A new manager started recently and I can't stop thinking about him. He's at least a decade younger than me, but REALLY good looking and SO charming. He hasn't been unprofessional or inappropriate, but he just has this way of looking at me that turns my insides to jelly.

Lately I've started finding excuses to talk to him and be around him. I've even caught myself just hanging round on my short breaks, trying to get a glimpse of him!

Otherwise, I'm happily married with a good husband. I've never been one for crushes, so this is really uncharacteristic of me.

I've been told I'm attractive and often I get attention from men half my age, but I'm a one man woman. That's why my current behaviour is so inexplicable - especially to me.

I love my hubby, like my job and wouldn't really want anything to change, so why can't I stop thinking about a man who has shown no interest in me?

Anyone had this happen to them?

OP posts:
JamSandle · 21/03/2023 14:57

I'm in basically the same boat so I feel your pain.

Aquamarine1029 · 21/03/2023 14:59

It's a crush. It will pass.

Azandme · 21/03/2023 15:05

It's a crush. Don't do anything stupid.

Also, picture him straining for a poo, picking his nose and eating it, picking his ears and inspecting it, stratching his balls and sniffing his fingers...

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