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Should I make a first move

8 replies

Sunshine19y · 16/03/2023 15:20

Hi guys. Please don't judge me hard. I am not an native English speaker ))
I am an college student. One handsome guy has been checking me out for like 2 months now. He studies different major so we don't see each other that often ( 2-3 times a week) He tries so hard to show me that he is interested in me. Like he makes an eye contact everytime he sees me. And even looked for me once when I was taking an exam. Yesterday he asked for my phone number in front of my friends. I was so shocked. Therefore didn't give him my phone number. Omg I fucked up real bad cause I also was interested in him. What should I do now ? Should I make a first move, apologize for my behavior and try to get to know him ? Gosh I even saw him in my dreams today

OP posts:
firstmummy2019 · 16/03/2023 16:34

He's already made the 1st move by asking for your number. The ball is in your court now.

Watchkeys · 16/03/2023 16:39

There are no shoulds. If you want him to have your number, give it to him.

It's really not too complicated. He's asked, you give.

Watchkeys · 16/03/2023 16:41

And you're being very dramatic with the omg i fucked up so bad stuff. You're not in a tv drama. You don't have to apologise because you've done nothing wrong, unless you were disrespectful to him?

FirmPillow · 16/03/2023 16:43

How did you decline to give him your number?
Him: May I have your number?
You: No, you may not.
Like this??

Whatthefnow · 16/03/2023 16:55

Go for it op

category12 · 16/03/2023 17:00

Yeah, you rejected him so if you do fancy him, you need to make the move to say something like"sorry, you caught me on the hop and I've been kicking myself for saying no".

Don't be too surprised if he's a bit wary/blows you off.

Try not to muck people about in future.

Daisydu · 16/03/2023 17:01

He already made the first move… so go give him your number!

Dery · 17/03/2023 07:50

As PP said - he’s made the first move. I really don’t understand why your response was to refuse to give him your tel no when you like him. But not too late to put that right. Find him and give him your number.

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