As the title says I have to beg my boyfriend to make an effort. I gave birth nearly 3m ago and I know it sounds silly but I don't have the confidence to drive yet. So I'm having to rely on him to see me instead. His phones broken so he can't text but can call, but for the last 5 days he hasn't called until after 9-10pm. I just can't get any answers out of him as to what's going on so am I safe to assume it's pretty much over from his lack of effort and interest? When he comes over I buy him a takeaway every time to make up for the journey. I'm being a complete idiot by letting him stay in my life aren't I 