Ex demanding money from me

[Alicew00]

We split up because he turned out to be disrespectful and didn't care about anyone but himself....the week before we split up he gave me some money to put on gas/heating, food and bills and also 100 towards a trip I was going on with my family. So in total 250. I can only afford to pay back the 100 which he originally asked back for. But he wants it all back. I have just had my car fixed and I am due to pay childcare fees. Its depressing me so much. I told him I can pay back so much each week or month but he is demanding it all in a week when I get paid. I just can't do it.
:( What do I do.

Now he says he needs it but he gets 1700 a month!

I've deleted my email

Just dont respond.
Has he ever had a key to your home?
If so,might be eise to get your locks changed.

If he shows up at your place, don't answer the door. Mighty also be wise to warn your work you have a crazy ex who may try to cause trouble. Cover all your bases just incase.

Hopefully he'll sod off soon though.

You could tell him there was no suggestion you pay the extra back and then tell him youve set up a DD to pay him back over time with what you can afford, all being assertive

Don't really see why she should pay any of it back? It was a gift and a contribution to living expenses.

He's telling my sister it was money for this month not last month but it was last month. Now he's liking my posts from years ago on FB because he has my sister on FB and she won't block him because she liked him even though he's being vile!

I think there's a setting that stops "friends of friends" being able to see your posts.

I'd tell your sister to stop passing on messages from him.

Tell your sister you want nothing more than do with him and that you've blocked him. And that it's creepy as fuck he is using her like this. As in 'eww, its so creepy he is using you to stalk me. Saaaad. At this rate I'm going to need a restraining order'.

Women don't tend to like to continue friendships with implied creepers.

If she has form for making your life a competition/drama though then step back from her too. Don't tell her anything you don't want him knowing about. Be careful what you post online.

And pp is right, you cam change your privacy settings from 'friends of friends' to 'friends only'.