Just wanting some support I guess for my very slow separation progress.
Me and dh haven't been right for a long time. Since Oct we have slept separately having only had sex two or 3 times in the last 4 years.
In Jan I said I thought the sleeping arrangement should be more permanent, I have told family and friends and at present I feel very comfortable in our current situation.
We coparent well, we share our home, eat together, still do each others washing and meals etc.
We just sleep separately so it's like we are housemates with kids.
I am much happier, I don't think he is.
I am trying to plan/think of what comes next, what if one of us meets someone, do we need a proper split of time with the kids so neither of us feel like it's. Always us doing the childcare etc
I've already spoken to our mortgage broker and the reality is awful so selling and moving isn't financially viable right now.
I've also booked a 30min free session with a. Family lawyer to see what things I would need. Think. About, how to go about stuff etc.
I am hoping that although moving slowly, I am taking the right steps to get where I want to be.