Bit of a long one so bear with me. My husband works pretty much seven days a week. I am left to work part time, look after three DC ,housework and part time uni course alone for the majority of the time. DH attends a sporting club twice a week but has decided to stop one night to pursue other hobbies. We have had a row about housework( his lack of it) which is a common theme in our relationship.
He said during the argument I stop him going out and he needs to have more than just our family. Apparently I have made comments about his hobby so he gave one night up and also doesn't go out because of these comments and that he hasn't got a life and everyone tells him all the time I rule the roost.
I'm gobsmacked! I've never stopped him going anywhere and certainly not told him to stop his hobby, that was totally his choice. I feel like he has blamed me to save face for his lack of enthusiasm. God knows what he's told people but it's totally untrue . Unsure how to handle this situation and am utterly fed up ! All I've asked for is help at home is that so wrong?