Long story short ... when i met him him and his ex wife hung out and she texted him 30 times a day and it was back and forth hey hun .. ok hun from both of them. It was behind my back but i found out and then she was starting to ask if she could call and tell her when i wasnt around.. we pretty much got over that bc he has stopped but she still had showen up bc she thought i wouldnt be there to his mutual friends. And texted randomly the other week! Now it is getting to me that no matter where or what is going on his friends and family seem to want to bring her up to me or arpund me. The other week his sister did in my own hosue while i walked out the room amd he was shushing her bc i was there! This was bothersome bc why does he need to talk about her or care? Why is it a secret? Now again last night his sister in law brought up there wedding! Which he says he will never marry again so this bothers me as well now i have to hear about how he married some other woman! They have been seperated 10 heaes and no kids! Am i wrong for being upset about this?