Long time lurker, but first time posting! I’ve recently started dating a guy (literally only had 3 dates so very early). Really lovely guy, not my usual type as surprisingly he seems nice! Previous short term things have been with players, narcissistic personalities etc etc.
Im a single parent and have a very demanding managerial position so don’t get a lot of free time, I have 2 nights and 1 day whilst my LO is with dad. I have not been interested in dating, had a take it or leave it attitude, but this guys seems different and I am interested.
Weve always had really nice dates, then couple of nights ago we had 3rd date and had a little kiss at the end. Then he messaged me as soon as he got home saying how much he enjoys seeing me etc.
He has a child too so also limited with his free time, but he has made a few comments saying ‘can I fit him in my busy diary’ and made a few comments about me always being busy.
But I’m just wondering how much texting you do in the early days in between texts, as the next day after the date I don’t hear from him really unless it’s me messaging. It’s always been me arranging the dates too, I’m not sure he would if I didn’t. I know some people aren’t big texters. I might be reading too much into it. When we’ve met it’s always been nice and he told me on last date he told his friends he was ‘seeing someone’ - meaning me. He said not long ago seeing me once every couple of weeks is not great for him and he would like it to be more regular, but then he doesn’t really keep in contact, unless it is me initiating it.
im just wondering what the texting etiquette is in the early days?