Fed up feeling like this

[IncognitoBaby]

As you may be able to tell from my previous posts I have been feeling like this for a while... married 5 years together for 13 and a gorgeous amazing son who is 3. I feel like I am constantly in a rut and imagine like of being on my own and how happy I would potentially be. I just don't feel the spark anymore I don't want sex and i feel absolutely nothing when kissing him. Over Christmas I nearly ended it told him how unhappy I am and we both agreed to make a big effort we spent more time together and booked a holiday for this year to look forward to but I am still unhappy? He is trying so so hard bless him I really couldn't ask for more from him but I am still feeling like this ... he is a good honest man who would walk to the end of this world to make me and his family happy so why isn't that enough ?

There's lots of good honest men OP, who would do anything for their family. Do you think you'd be compatible with them all? Is that all you think it takes to make you happy? A good honest man who'd do anything for you?

Sounds like it's run it's course. Relationships change after children. Sad but true. Some survive but a lot don't. Sounds like you need more than 'a good man' of which previous poster has said, there are many.

Thank you for your replies I really appreciate it! I know what you mean with him not being the only guy in the world but I just can't bare the thought of breaking his heart and then there is the whole what if I make a big mistake and there is no way back