To split up?

[Lifeisrosy]

Excluding abuse and infidelity, how did you know it was time to split up?

For context, two small kids, equal pay etc, just arguing all the time. I'm exhausted.

Would you give a fuck if he was with someone else? Would it hurt? If the answer is no, you're done.

I'm sorry to hear you're going through this OP! This could be temporary, but I think the fact that you might be asking yourself if it's time to split up or that you're arguing all the time are strong reasons. It's also important the way in which you argue, if you're not getting anywhere and healthy discussions about problems don't work, that's not good either. Don't accept a relationship that makes you feel bad if the other person is doing nothing about improving things when you tell them