So i decided to tell my DH that I want to seperate. Initially he took it well and agreed we could sell the house split equity and do our best for kids. But since then as we are living together the conversation has come up a number of times. 10 years together 2 DC, a long history of man child behaviour, no help, me working full time, him being careless with money, no interest in kids etc he has started on antidepressants for anxiety. Promised everthing would be different when he realised i had one foot out the door. Now he has decided its all my fault said i was the worst wife ever, useless, devious, sly he said I am unlovable etc etc. My therapist said if he really wanted me to stay he would bend over backwards showing me he could be different. I just don't know what to do anynore. Now he says he will move to other side of country and pay maintenance cos he never wants to see me again, but also refusing to sell the house. Omg why are men like this ðŸ˜