So my foreign ex boyfriend has recently been gaslighting me after an argument over WhatsApp. We were in A long distance relationship where he was away for over 2 months and I felt like he was more distant over there with his communication than he was in the uk. He would message one message in the morning then another one 2 hours later and it would go on like this all day (so the convo felt flat) but I did notice he was always online on what's app so it made me feel less important.
I then noticed he had hidden his online status from me as he had forgotten he had my other number ( which showed me his status) and he denied doing it then he called me crazy .. and we split up. He then said he would call me and he never did and this is super hurtful considering we were together for a year. I am struggling with this break up and question my behaviour and myself 😔 or did I act like any normal woman would act in this situation ? And then I wonder how I can get over this break up .. I know i shouldn't have kept checking his status but I wondered what he was doing that was so important and it made me very paranoid ..was my gut telling me something or was I in the wrong ?