My husband is having sex with someone. He wont fully admit it but I know he does for lots of reasons. One being he keeps his Viagra in his coat pocket and I can tell when he had had one. He is lying about where he goes. I have confronted him and he says he is protecting me. I think it has been going on since September at least, and before that I don’t know. I have found sex toys in his bag as well as condoms. Doesn’t seem to work as he goes there during the morning whilst I am at work. And has stayed the night on many occasions so doesn’t have kids. He is 55, married 25 years and has 3 teenage children.
How has he found this girl who lives 6 miles away? I know the road but not the number. I feel trapped due to financial concerns. But what the hell do I do!?