I don't know what to do.
I have been on four dates with a guy.
On valentines day he bought me £600 worth of jewrelley and theatre tickets.
Now this may sound lovely but.
A few days before Valentines day I was buying my son a necklace for his girlfriend and this guy happened to be with me. I saw a beautiful locket in the window and said oh thats lovely, id wear that if i had a picture of my boys in it. We then walked past Pandora and I said oh its all a bit expensive tat in there, anything I have bought before.
Fast forward to Valentines day. He presents me with the locket, im like oh wow, bloody hell. Opened it and hes put pictures of himself in there 😐. Then he said don't shout at me, and presented me with a Pandora bracelet and 7 charms....one of which was his own star sign.....and then a card that he had written his own poem saying i liked you, I loved you, I'm keeping you.
I was so massively freaked out by this. We went out that night and I felt so uncomfortable, got back to mine and I pretended to fall asleep. I could hear him huffing behind me and then he started trying to pull on my jogging bottoms to get them down, then sent me probably the most sexually vile message i have ever recieved on his way home.
I havent replied to him since. Im taking the jewrelley back and having it refunded to him.
Am i being over the top or is this a red flag. My nervous system is telling me I've made the correct decison to cut this off.