Hi I posted on here recently about a close friend who lost her husband in October and has always been awkward and hard to please.
The recent thing is last weekend she asked me to go to her house to help her sort something out at home. So again I got two buses to get there only to be told she didn't feel up to doing the job and can do it by herself anyway. Had I known that I would have suggested meeting half way.
She did cook for me which was good of her but then she made the comment that I now owe her two meals. I explained that I have offered already to cook for her at my flat or treat her to lunch in town but she said the weather is too cold so maybe when it gets warmer.
She also told me that her other friend has invited her to go away with her and another friend in March and then commented about the holiday I'm going on in March with another friend of mine and said that we all could have gone. I explained that the holiday was booked when she was caring for her husband and she couldn't have committed to it anyway and she agreed
So this morning I get a usual chatty text from her but then she tells me how this other friend is supportive and knows how she feels and has even invited her on holiday. I just feel its a dig at me.
She's all for this other friend now which is fine. I've got other friends too but I don't compare them with her. Every time I suggest us meeting up she's not interested unless it's near where she lives yet she meets this other friend halfway I don't know how to reply to her latest message. I don't want to upset her but I want to remind her that I've tried to be supportive too. Or am I over thinking things?