Does having a one-night stand ever work?

[MrsPotterings]

I am bored on a work trip and have noticed a very attractive woman who works here. I have been happily married for years and have never cheated in any way. I have absolutely no idea even how to approach a woman, having been straight up to this point. I do suspect DH wouldn't mind if I told him as it would be with a a woman.

Any advice?

Take it step by step. No need to think about the entire night.

Start by getting to know her, take it from there.

If you have never flirted with a woman and haven't flirted in a long time this might be enjoyable in itself.

DuringDuran Thank you. I will follow that advice. I have never flirted with a woman so I am really hoping I don't get it wrong!

Ooh, she invited me for a drink this evening!

Would you be OK with your DH having ONS with a random bloke OP?

Dooo the Bad Thing

Take off your Wedding Ring ....

Arctic Monkeys.

Would you be OK with your DH having ONS with a random bloke OP?

At the risk of giving a serious answer to a question that wasn't meant seriously, the answer is that it depends.

I certainly wouldn't want him to literally spend the night with a man in a bed. It would also be deeply shocking to me as he has never shown any interest in men at all. But let#s imagine I was married to a different man I trusted and loved who had sometimes remarked that he found men sexy. Let's say he was on a work trip and said they had seen a man he thought was very hot and he really want to go flirt with him because they have never done that before and maybe, just maybe have a kiss and fondle, I would have to think about it. I would have to judge whether my husband was secretly gay and was about to leave me or had been lying to me all these years. Or if this was going to be a one off thing with no consequences for the future other than his experiencing something he had always wanted to experience.

What the fuck is this diatribe of shit? I can’t believe what I am reading.

So, your OH is happy for you to have fun with someone else, albeit a woman, while you are away with no previous conversation about you being bi; you don't know the woman you like is even bi or gay, and you would be worried your dh was lying to you all this time if the situation was reversed. Now, after earlier saying you were going for a drink with the woman, you are replying to someone on the thread tonight. I call bullsh**.

Frazzledmummy123

FFS. Is this have a go at a stranger day? I went for the drink and then after one glass she said she had plans to go meet other people. I mumbled incoherently that of course I did too and went back to my room.