AIBU to not want drugs in our life!

[Atari5000]

AIBU to ask my partner to not occasionally divulge in drug taking whilst I am pregnant?
It is not something that happens frequently by any means but I have asked not to and feel that should be taken into consideration. Because I didn’t outright ask if he had whilst at a friends house last week now he has confirmed it, I am in the wrong for not asking straight away?!
Maybe it is hormones but I don’t think it matters wether I asked him last week or I asked him today and he told me ???

Presumably you knew he was doing drugs occasionally before getting pregnant. If you didn’t object then, why is being pregnant an issue, especially if he was doing it at a mates and not anywhere near you?

I wouldn’t be with anyone who did drugs full stop so I’m curious to why it makes a difference now.

Agree. The mistake was getting involved with a drug taker in the first place. Please protect yourself and your child before he drags you both down with him.

So the drug taking before you were pregnant was ok? Are you ok with him doing drugs when baby comes? This wont make for a happy life sadly