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Caught my bf asking escorts for bj

32 replies

Rhirh · 16/02/2023 14:44

So I caught my bf asking an escort the price of bj and for her to send more pictures as the pictures on the website of her body were not clear enough. After I caught him he then said he seen some friends outside and they told him this escort was “polish” and that he wanted to see for himself if he knew her, then he said he was just doing it for a laugh because he was bored, he has also just cheated on me in September.

he’s saying I should believe him because he loves me and because he has been trying for the past 4 months to get me back. He’s also saying he’s broke so why would he spend his last money on an escort

OP posts:
VouloirCestPouvoir · 16/02/2023 16:42

Rhirh · 16/02/2023 15:23

I will 100% be leaving this man. I think the loneliness has lowered my standards but I am learning and I know I deserve better

Good on you, put him in the bin where he belongs.
Keep strong, don't let him worm his way back in xx

perfectcolourfound · 16/02/2023 17:38

Well done @Rhirh Know your worth.

He cheats. He lies. He can't even come up with a half-believable excuse when he's caught out. He uses sex workers. He doesn't respect you or women in general.

He's shown you who he is. Get away and stay away from him. Being single is 1000 times better than being with someone who treats you badly. Embrace being single. Discover who you really are, what you want from a relationship. Then don't accept anything less.

BMW6 · 16/02/2023 17:47

Well I would kick him to the kerb even if he did do it as a joke, cos what kind of wanker thinks that's a funny way to relieve boredom FFS?

Either way he's a piece of shit and you can do much much better. Time to raise your standards OP.

Moser85 · 16/02/2023 17:58

Pathetic 'man'.

So glad you are leaving him!

StaunchMomma · 16/02/2023 18:55

You know the truth, OP.

He's a cheat and a slimy scumbag.

No woman on Earth needs to put up with that shit.

Move on.

Zanatdy · 16/02/2023 21:05

Oh come on. Who would believe that pathetic excuse. Walk away from him and don’t look back

Pinkbonbon · 16/02/2023 21:21

So, best case scenario (which, it isn't, because he's obviously a lying shitbag) he thinks its OK to text excorts. To take the piss out of them. And, is gaslighting you by telling you you should just believe him, just like that, even though he's cheated on you before. Yeh, because you're not allowed to have the common sense notion that he could ever possibly ve up to something considering...oh, I don't know, The fact he's cheated before and you've literally just caught him texting.a.prostitute!!!

He's a total scumball. Run. Run fast and run far.
And Read up, continually throughout your life, from now on, on how to spot narcissistic abuse and the red flags of a narcissist. Protect yourself from creeps like him.

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