I'm dating 2 people....

[JMC27]

Last Atumn I got out of a bad relationship, only bad, because they were not the right person. I said to myself that I dont want to keep making the same mistakes with picking partners.

I started tindering etc just after Xmas with all the fun that, that brings.

I know you have to kiss a few toads to find your price and it is a soul destroying experience.

Anyway I met someone early January, we went on date quite quickly (due to circumstances) and we clearly had a connection. We have alot of common in live, included shared values and a lot of fun together.

I was also talking to someone else, and we wanted to meet up, but with them being away and me working it took a few weeks to finally meet up, but we chatted regaulary when it would have been easy to fizzle out. They are the total opposite on the first person I met, they are a little older, have a different outlook in life and we get on and have fun, but just in a different way.

I now find myself torn between 2 really great people who I am dating, it was never my intent to end up in the situation, but I am where I am. I have made no many wrong choice in the past I now dont know what to do. I could imagine a future with both of them.

Any advice?

I'm fascinated as to whether both men know about each other but the OP hasn't answered this question.

If a man had two women on the go at once, would the responses on here be the same?

I agree.

1 at a time always works better.

“f a man had two women on the go at once, would the responses on here be the same?”

if they both knew, that would be fine. She’s only been dating them a few weeks

I personally could never date 2 men at the same time, certainly if I was sleeping with both. I’ve never done OLD but did start seeing someone in the last 3 months. Even if I found out he was seeing someone else in those first 2 weeks I’d have been upset. After texting me saying he’s smitten etc and lots of other nice things I’d have been really upset if I found out he had another woman he was seeing too. Maybe I’m old fashioned too and this is part of OLD. I think I’d have to put my profile on hold if I went on a date which lead to a 2nd date.

As you say you need to choose. A ready made blended family might not be easy, but then might not necessarily be easy for a childless guy to get along with someone else’s child or necessarily want to be involved in family life.