Days before my birthday my husband hurt his knee and wasn't able to walk without crutches, I cancelled the plans we had, and told him we could do it another day. On my actual birthday I woke up, got the kids ready for school did all the normal stuff you do and not one of them acknowledged it was my birthday. I felt really hurt by this.my do spoke to me telling me he was sorry that he ruined my birthday but not once did I get a happy birthday. He also said I told him my birthday was cancelled , I never said that. It was really horrible as they are the people I do everything for and for one day they couldn't even say happy birthday. I've told my dh I no
Longer am going to celebrate my birthday, I am not acting like a child but my childhood was very abusive and the way I deal with things as an adult is if something really hurts me I will
Just not doit again. I no it isn't the right way to deal with things but I suffer with complex ptsd caused by childhood trauma and it's the only
Way I no how. How would you deal with the situation?