Over the last year i have noticed that my partner of 6 years is very secretive with his phone. He’ll take it to every bathroom break, the kitchen, and even when sleeping he’ll have it in his pocket or in his hand under his pillow (I don’t know his password). This in itself feels like a red flag to me… am I wrong?
Now fast-forward to last night, he randomly falls asleep with his phone open and something tells me to peek. I find a deleted message from a girl, with her sending him a crying a emoji and him telling her that he had tried to call her back. The messages were dated back to a few weeks ago, during a time where he had left the house for some air after we had argued about something silly. The strange thing is that those 2 messages had been the only ones in the chat - therefore leading me to believe that he’s deleted more before I had been able to see the rest…
I’m aware that going on his phone was wrong but I just need to know if I’m overreacting about the situation? Am I overthink?