I confronted my partner as we agreed if he said or did something that I was not happy with.
He was laughing because I didn't know something and I said I think laughing is just plain rude & unnecessary.
He says I overthinked it, I'm too sensitive then as the conversation becomes heated with I am not trying to argue but offload how I heard it he told me I had wasted his evening.
What I struggle with is unless I keep quiet and when I am emotional I'm seen to be causing trouble because "we are good together when we get on."
I should know him by now, a year on, He means no harm or upset.
Yet all I feel is emotionally disconnected.
Sorry, I wasted his time, and when I bumped the phone off trying to make a coffee and rung back he answered What! What!.
I said excuse me?
He would rather deny comments which cause massive frustration leading to a shitty argument followed by how he wants what's best for me.
I was then told Valentine's Day is
American materialism, and he doesn't care for it, I said ok but I do."
He never remembers what i bring up then argues, denying until I hear ok maybe I said that.
I'm tired of this.