Is this weird behaviour

[Lily189]

Hi everyone

Me and my partner have 2 kids and been together 6 years

We came back yesterday from a 2 day break at a forest cabin that my partner took me too for a romantic valentines stay

The time away was lovely so where my presents and decorations he done I loved everything he done for me and he was telling me how much he loves me

But one thing I just think is weird is that we didn't have sex at all I tried the first night he said he was too drunk

I dunno I'm just overthinking but I thought whole point us being away for romantic break was to relax and be intimate with eachother we only had a few pecks on the lips not even a proper kiss

And it seemed he was more interested in getting drunk both nights which I knew we were going do because we don't get to drink often but still thought we would've been intimate

Now my heads thinking all sorts I think he loves me but isn't attracted to me I just dunno
Ano sex isn't everything in a relationship but with 2 young kids and finally having time completely on our own I thought we would had intimacy

Would you think this was weird?

Would you be annoyed by it?
I just can't stop thinking whats up

I'd find that odd too. Have you spoke to him about it?

How has your sex life been apart from that? Is it just there it didn't happen, or has it been a long time?
Is it normal for him to be as romantic around val day or does it look like guilt overcompensation? You know him best.

I don’t think it is that weird.

I think it's weird. Sometimes honestly it feels like an effort and on a weekend away - especially two nights - there is an expectation you're going to make that effort because if not then when?