Don't know where else to turn as it's a sensitive subject. But I had my first baby Feb'22 and currently pregnant again due in May'23.
As I'm sure all relationships do, with a new baby things change and there are new stresses etc. My hubby and I only got into sex again when baby was four months old and I then became pregnant again when he was 6 months old.
As with my first pregnancy my sex drive just disappears when pregnant and I just don't seem to hear the end of it from DH. I'm constantly pestered to 'do something' anything intimate and I just constantly feel guilty that I'm not up for it. Am I right in thinking I can't help my hormones? I appreciate it's hard for DH especially with almost back to back pregnancies but I'm not going to force myself. It's really bringing me down, j do explain to DH how I'm feeling but it just doesn't stop. He's feeling down because he feels I'm not 'into him', with a 1 year old we are run ragged and rarely have time for a kiss or cuddle yet alone anything else anyway. Understandably I want to feel looked after while pregnant not pestered for sex but feel we're both just miserable when it should be a happy time.