Bedroom life

[Doodles29]

I just flipped out at my boyfriend and now I feel bad about it. 😟

He slept over last night with his dog- I have just dropped him to the train station as he is going to watch the football. His dog is highly energetic. Every hour or so, she would jump into the bed and trample on me. I got barely any sleep last night.

This morning, when I was clearing away from breakfast, he tried it on with me. We went to the bedroom but when we got there, he was insistent that he didn’t want to have intercourse.

He doesn’t like going down on me either, and I struggle to get ‘off’ without intercourse. He was denying me of this, but kept telling me to do things to him.

I felt frustrated to the point where I cried and left the room (I don’t know why - maybe i was just tired!)

We’ve talked it though now and I said I just felt that he was being a bit selfish and kept teasing when I wasn’t in the best of moods anyway.

I’ve dropped him off for the day now and I just feel really bad about it. I suppose my head is a jumble and I’m wondering whether my reaction was irrational? Thank you.

Sorry OP, this doesn't sound like a good relationship.

Lack of sleep is a big passion killer. Be kind to urself. I'm a but confused,are you saying you think he wanted yiu to pleasure him.but you did not feel like it? Also is this a recurrent thing? If he doesn't like giving you oral is there something else he does that you like?

He doesn’t like going down on me either, and I struggle to get ‘off’ without intercourse. He was denying me of this, but kept telling me to do things to him.

I felt frustrated to the point where I cried and left the room (I don’t know why - maybe i was just tired!)

Your tears are telling you that his treatment of your is unfair. Nothing for you but whatever he wants - are you happy with that?

Do not feel bad, do not wonder whether you were irrational - you weren't. He's selfish, to say the least.

@BCBird not at all. I was in the mindset that I wanted to do things with him; I love pleasuring him.

My issue with him was more ‘well if I’m not able to get what I’d like too, then I’ll stop’ attitude.

He is very good in bed but up until recently it feels that he wants to do other things other than having sex. His rationale for today was that he ‘wanted to tease me so that the next time we do it, it will feel better’. I’m not sure if that’s due to laziness or not? I’m not really sure. X

Bin him.

He sounds a bit weird... and controlling

Agreed. Weird, controlling, and selfish.

Subtle but controlling.

Sounds like one of those guys who is watching a lot of nonsense Youtube vids on attraction

His rationale for today was that he ‘wanted to tease me so that the next time we do it, it will feel better’. I’m not sure if that’s due to laziness or not?

If you believe that, I've got a bridge for sale you might be interested in!

He wanted a blowjob and couldn't be arsed to get you off as well. Fuck that. Either you both orgasm or nobody does. And tell him next time his dog sleeps in another room.