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Am I unreasonable to be suspect

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Mindblowindecisions · 09/02/2023 19:00

So today my DH sent me a WhatsAp pic of our newly decorated bathroom that he had just finished off.

I'm was a bit bewildered why it was a disappearing message that I've never recieved from him or anyone before.

I googled it and you can achieve this in settings but when I adked my DH about it he got angry and said he doesn't have a clue how it could have happened!

To be up front and honest this has made me suspicious that he may be sending photos to someone that he doesn't want traced. Maybe he forgot to turn the setting off before sending me the photo.

Am I right to be suspicious?

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Mindblowindecisions · 10/02/2023 08:46

Would also like to add that I come from a very dysfunctional family where my father was a serial cheat having many affairs, one with my mother's best friend and a baby with the babysitter and many more. I never understood why my mother stayed but his excuse was that you have to be a man to understand why they do it. Has taken me alot of years to rid myself of his thinking and to realise NO it's not what all men do!!!!!

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Appleblum · 10/02/2023 08:50

You are overreacting. The 'view once' button is right on top of the "send' button and it's very easy to press on it by mistake when you're trying to press send.

I've done it in error plenty of times myself.

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