Maybe I am looking too much into this !
Both on our late 40s..
Been with my partner 7 years engaged for two years .living in council house together for 5 years....we chose this property together as he was in a bachelor pad, but his name always been on the tenancy as he always been a council tenant .as I came from bad marriage and owed my own house when met but had to sell it due to divorce settlement etc etc then moved in with my partner..then moved into this house..
I have four kids ..he has none...three flown the nest and just my sons at home now he's in his teens..
Hope that make sense bit of background info..
Anyway we both pay half the bills .. etc etc everything always been 50/50
We like to get married but unfortunately can't afford the big do etc etc
But I thought time for me to go on the tenancy....
So approached the subject..and his face was a picture ..he said "don't need to as planning to get married..you can go on it then, but as long as you don't chuck me out!! "
I was a bit taken back! I said but why I don't go on it now as we can't afford to get married...he said" if you do you chuck me out" "you go on it when we're married"..
His comments amazed me and I don't get it, he don't like me talking about it now..he says why bring it up again...! .
why does ye go on about I chuck him out! We're not kids both nearly 50!!
Am I over reacting