So I met this girl on tiktok and we started talking and things were great. We went on a few dates, she introduced me to her kids, I stayed with her at her house. Everything was perfect. We both have been done the same way so it’s like we gave each other security with how fast we’d respond to each other’s texts, acknowledge each other on social media, see each other frequently, etc
Her ex is extremely toxic and likes to interfere when someone he dated tries to move on. He got wind I guess of us and decided to message her on Facebook. He tried face timing, liked her TikTok’s, messaged. It was late and when she texted me that morning she told me about it and said it kept her up stressed all night and she wanted to tell me. Admittedly, I got mad and kind of overreacted. I told her if she knew he was going to message her she should have blocked him before he did it and if she had a relationship on her Facebook he likely never would have messaged her to begin with.
She got real upset and thought I was breaking up with her, but I wasn’t. I admittedly got mad for the rest of the day and when I calmed down now it feels like she’s pulling away from me. I talked to her and apologized and said I should have handled it better but I reacted over fear of losing her. She said she doesn’t want him and that she messaged him back telling him she was in a relationship and blocked him. I did see screenshots of that.
How do I fix this and was I in the wrong?