Seeking a woman's advice

[bmuk]

Hi.
Just after some womanly advice.
I'm a man and been with my partner for 8 years. Things haven't been too great for the past couple of years but I thought we were getting better
I've recently found a photo that proves she's had another man in the house while I've been away working. And another photo proving the same man was in tye house last summer whilst I was away

Obviously I was not happy about this. But she stayed calm and just said it was a friend and she know how it looks but it's all innocent

I don't actually know what to belive.

I think its wrong to have a other man in the house and not tell me snd hide it but she's not gotbonye defensive either which I thought she would of if I had caught her out.

Am I jumping to conclusions? Or is there more to it? My gut says more to it but I do want to belive her

Thanks

Sorry to hear that, at least you know now. Don't stoop to her level, legally get her out of the house and move on with your life. She is not worth any further hassle.

She's not on the mortgage. But getting her out is gonna be a pain. She knows she can't afford to live by herself so is gonna drag this out. I feel like such an idiot as its pretty obvious now she was only with me for what she could get and the life she had.