How do i support a partner who feels 'stuck'
Its been bad for about 18 months. He has anxiety (but not depression. His friend open up to him that he is struggling, he's been put on the same meds and i asked the depression question of my partner as i think there is something there but he says no)
He pushes me away, can't remember the last time he said something nice to me . He's not horrid but transactional. Its getting to the point where I'm thinking what is the point? I don't want to be in a loveless relationship, i don't want my kids thinking thats the norm.
I want him back and i want him happy.
He's told me (via a message) that he feels lost, stuck and he needs me to help him. He wont talk about the message. So I'm no where nearer.
I feel very alone, and he must do too. I just can't seem to crack his shell.
Anyone been in the same boat and got through?