All he seems to do is moan and be negative. It's pretty regular but this is from the past week. I don't drive so he picks DS2 up from nursery. On Monday, I said I'll come with him because DS1 has been asking for some football cards and Asda is the only place they do them (the nursery is across the road) I said to save time he can go and get DS and I'll go in Asda, or vice versa. He shouted 'for fucks sake' and said 'get in the car then' Then on Wednesday I told him I might ask my friend if she could get a peppa pig ballon for DS who is 2 at the end of the month (she does balloons) he tutted, pulled a face and said ‘what's the point’ Then today I suggest giving DS1 a party for his 7th birthday in April. He's never had a party before and I've felt a bit bad but never really been able to afford one in the past. He's done things with friends but not a proper party. He tutted, pulled his face and said what's the point (again) I would be paying for the party which he knows and it can't be about him not being bothered to help because he plays football on Saturdays so wouldn't be there anyway (hoping I can find somewhere for a Saturday) maybe it's me being overbearing🤷🏻♀️ Just to add, it can't be about money because we can afford the above. I feel as if I can't say or suggest anything without him either moaning or putting a downer on it and it’s driving me mad. But then again it could be me?