We had had 'words' over something and nothing, which ended with him calling me a tit. I dont like how he speaks to me sometimes Its really getting me down. Its not alway what he says, its the tone of his voie. It seems sillly seeing it written down now on here.
When we got into bed, I couldnt sleep and tried to talk to him about how I felt. Again it just turned into him complaining about whatever it was that I had done. usual senario.
I got up and came downstairs. I saw on TV a man put his arm round a woman and give her a supportive hug, this made me cry and I wote down how I felt. I was not sure whether to give him the note, but as I felt better for writing it I put it in his bag.
He has rung and he does not seem to acknowledge how I feel at all. He says he is angry too and I am condesending ( is that how you spell it?) I am just sick of being spoken to like I am a naughty kid. I dont know who he thinks he is sometimes.
his father does speak to his mother like this at times. He knows I dont like it and think his mother should say somethig to him.
I am short tempered with my 2.8 yr old this morning. we also have a 6 mth old. I feel drained.
We have been together 10 years, married for 4. I dont have any doubts about us loving each other. I suppose its just something we need to sort out - a rough patch, but I feel sick, empty and alone. I cant bear for us to be like this.
Why cant he acknowledge how I feel. Why does it always turn into a discussion about him and what I have done wrong.