I received a message from a woman at the beginning of the year saying she had been having an affair with my husband for five years. She had proof and it completely floored me as he just isn't the type. I'm in shock! To make it worse he kept on lying!! He admitted the affair but said it only happened a couple of times. The other women had proof that it had been pretty much constant for five years and that three years ago she was pregnant with his baby and had a termination. I just can't believe he would do this to me and the kids. What makes it even worse is that she is absolutely gorgeous...I feel ugly and worthless. I'm obsessed with trawling through her social media and looking at her...it's like torture.
I am at a loss at what to do. I still love him but I know I could never trust him again and things would never be the same. I am from overseas and ideally would like to move back to have the support of my parents, but my husband would fight legally to stop that happening. It feels like my options are to stay here with him and be unhappy, or move home without the kids which would kill me. Please does anyone have any advice?