Hello.
Me and my ex have a TOXIC relationship. We can't co parent, more as everything that goes on around my daughter I have no idea about. Last week, it was all my fault that my daughter was disrupted (he went away for a week and I had her all week....) and he thought she should live with him. We had an agreement, that once a partner was regularly staying with their child, the other parent would know. If someone moved in, the other would know out of respect for a change in routine (this didnt happen). Today he took my daughter for her vaccines (he did not tell me - last week he had cancelled these as he had a travel vaccination...). Today he sent me a picture of her vaccinations, including MMR which I wasn't sure if I wanted her to have.
He has not told me we will go to court and mediation etc over our daughter, as it is so toxic and all we do is argue. Has anyone done this?