My ex and I just recently decided to give it another go. We both have things to work on and are trying to do it.
He has joined a gym and goes 4 nights a week. We live an hour apart which means we can't see each other after. He gives me 3 nights a week where I can possibly see him but he keeps bailing on me saying he is too tired from the gym the previous evening. We both agreed to make the effort and whilst I am happy he is working on himself I feel he has no time for me as he is so tired all the time. Even when we do see each other on those days he complains about how tired he is and usually goes to bed early or naps during the day so we're not spending quality time togerher. We barely go out and have fun as he has no energy. I want him to be able to work on himself but also make time for me given how much he said he missed me just seems he isn't making the effort. Any advice would be welcome. As a side note I go to the gym 5 times a week but sacrifice a night to ensure I can spend time with him.