Age gap

[HelloOhHell]

I’m 37, fancy a guy who is 32. Is this too large an age gap?

we work together, we chat and go out (as colleagues and with other colleagues) all the time but recently it’s been a bit, well, different. We are both definitely making eyes at each other.

im physically and mentally attracted to him. I cannot confirm that he is, but I think he is?

I’ve thought a lot about could we be together, even if it’s just a bit of fun for now (so relaxed so to speak) and see where it goes? idk if this is too much of an age gap?? I really don’t want to make my self look silly. Thoughts? Questions? Help!!

Not too young at all! What's more important is that you are both honest about what you're looking for in terms of a relationship/ fun etc.

I was looking for long term commitment (found that hard to find in London) and once dated a much younger guy who convinced me (and himself) that he wanted to get serious, but ultimately he decided he didn't. After which I dated an older man, thinking he'd know what he wanted and was ready (a 40 year old when I was 34). He loved bombed me hard, but was ultimately in no rush to commit or adapt his lifestyle. He's now with a 30 year old and I'm now married to a guy 6 years younger than me. My Father is 8 years younger than my mother. Age is a number!