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Last minute plans

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Afternoonteaandcake · 20/01/2023 19:38

I'm annoyed with my boyfriend. Earlier in the week he said he might see his daughters over the weekend and had to ask them - no problem with this. Last night I asked what was happening the weekend and he said he would let me know.

Today at 4.30pm he messaged to say his daughter just rang asking to see him the weekend. He said he can see me late on Sunday and I stop over and work at his Monday. He asked to meet tonight too. Bregudingly I am meeting him tonight even though I am absolutely shattered.

He said his daughter has a habit of asking to meet him last minute. I have no problem him seeing his daughters but he has no respect for my time just asking me at the last minute as I want to make plans too if he can't see me. I need to tell him.

I'm concerned if he says anything to his daughters or ex wife about letting him know in advance the ex wife would try and turn him against me as the daughters were not really keen on his exes having his attention.

OP posts:
Blanca87 · 20/01/2023 19:42

You just need to boundaries in place, you don’t have to begrudgingly see him tonight if it doesn’t suit. You have autonomy to work what’s best for you.

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