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Partner annoyed at me

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megan2906 · 20/01/2023 19:11

My partner is annoyed at me because I feel ill in my pregnancy. He then said he is worried for our future because over the last year when I was working I was poorly a lot. Most of the time I had off was due to pregnancy related sickness apart from one time when I had covid. I don't feel very supported and feel like whenever I am ill it's an inconvenience for him. It's just so annoying I wish he could know what it was like to be pregnant and have this sickness and stomach acid reflux all the time. I don't know if I'm over reacting by being upset by his comments. Please help :(

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AnneLovesGilbert · 20/01/2023 19:15

Sorry he’s not being supportive. It’s not clear what he’s annoyed about. You having time off work? Not being able to do things you could before?

If he’s inconvenienced by pregnancy illness he’s not going to love life with a newborn.

Watchkeys · 20/01/2023 21:57

Is he normally Mr Respectful? It's so rude of him; you're carrying his baby, he should be doing everything he can for you.

Chloe800 · 26/01/2023 17:14

Well he’s the fool ! You should say you are worried about your future as a couple too ! …. He should support you when you are carrying his child or poorly or unhappy or whatever your going through.

Tell him, his actions are selfish and he’s being very self centred and uncaring and if he carries on you will leave him. With baby if needed. If you are not firm he will continue to put you down and disrespect you in my opinion.

To be honest he sounds quite awful and trying to bully you when you are feeling vulnerable. Psychologically bullying you. Not nice …..

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