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Does an ex ever just want to know 'how you are' innocently?

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chocolateaddict231 · 15/01/2023 16:00

Hi ladies,

Hope your weekend is going great! I posted the other day about an ex emailing out of the blue and from talking to friends a number of them have said 'maybe he just wants to know what's going on in your life' and to give the benefit of the doubt. It seems people either think exes want you back if they get back in touch or it's innocent and I don't want to act naive by replying.

Just a little background.....we were on and off a lot, he was scared of commitment and would leave at the first sign of trouble but in the end we gave it a go but the damage was done for me and it ended badly (we were both pretty crappy those final days) so I have some guilt too. It's been two and a half years since we spoke

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sarahc336 · 15/01/2023 21:10

Sounds to me he's recently been dumped, needs his ego massaging so is going back through his old address book and texting people to do so. Personally there's no going back, it's not innocent op and I think you know it isn't ☺️

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