ExDp pays 75 pcm for ds. Has him sparodically although usually every Friday evening now which has been happening for 6mths. Before that it was Wednesday and then that chnaged.
Hes talking about returning to an old field of work heavy on drugs and drinking etc and means he'd drop most weekends as works away.
I work full time and need routine for my work which pays for evrything in ds life. I'd rather get paid childcare if I had to as its reliable. I can afford it. I cant cope with the chopping and changing all the time.
Would a court order here help or would it be a pointless waste of money?